Long distance relationship games you can play together online
Simple online games with built-in video chat, for couples who want to do something together on a call instead of only talking.
A long distance relationship is hard even when you talk every day. After a while the video calls start to repeat themselves and the conversation slows down. You want to feel close, and the distance keeps getting in the way.
Playing a game together helps. On PlayFaceToFace you can play simple games with video chat built in, so you see each other's faces and hear the reactions as they happen. It feels more like sitting together than talking through a screen.
Best online games for long-distance couples
The right game depends on how much time you have and what kind of evening you want. Turn-based games work best because they leave room to talk, and none of these need fast reflexes. They are easy to learn even if one of you isn't a gamer.
| Game | Best for |
|---|---|
| Tic Tac Toe | Quick check-ins and teasing rematches |
| Battleship | Two-player guessing, suspense and reactions |
| Checkers | Relaxed conversation while you play |
| Reversi | Simple rules with more strategic choices |
| Chess | Longer, focused date nights |
| Xiangqi | Couples who enjoy Chinese chess |
| Big Two | Cards, friendly competition and banter |
Choose a game for the date you want
A five-minute check-in
Play Tic Tac Toe or a short round of Checkers when you only have a few minutes but still want to share something.
A relaxed call
Reversi and Checkers move slowly enough that you can talk about your day while you each take a turn.
A competitive date night
Chess, Xiangqi and Battleship last longer and bring more suspense and strategy.
Cards and group energy
Big Two is the pick when you want cards, reactions and some friendly competition, with your partner or with friends joining in.
Why games help couples feel closer
Talking matters, but doing something together is a different kind of connection. A game gives you both something to focus on, so nobody has to keep coming up with things to say.
- Silence feels comfortable instead of awkward.
- Laughter comes on its own.
- Small reactions and expressions matter again.
- The time goes faster, in a good way.
It stops feeling like a call and starts feeling like time spent side by side.
How to start an online game date
Plenty of online games want an app, an account or some setup first, and that can kill the mood. PlayFaceToFace runs in the browser. You share a link, your partner joins straight away and you play with video on, so an ordinary call can turn into a game without any planning.
- Pick a game that fits your time and mood.
- Create a private room and send your partner the invitation link.
- Turn on video chat if you want it, and start playing.
Ideas for virtual date nights
Games make easy virtual dates, even on busy days.
- A short weekday check-in with one quick game.
- A weekend game night with snacks on both sides.
- A game running in the background while you talk about your day.
- Friendly competition over best-of-three rounds.
You don't need hours. Fifteen or twenty minutes makes a real difference.
Who these games are for
- Couples living in different cities or countries.
- Partners in different time zones.
- Couples whose video calls have started to feel repetitive.
- Couples who want to feel closer without forcing conversation.
No gaming skill required. You only need some time for each other.
Frequently asked questions
What are the best online games for long-distance couples?
Tic Tac Toe and Checkers suit short calls. Battleship, Chess, Xiangqi, Reversi and Big Two work well for longer virtual dates.
Can couples play without downloading an app?
Yes. PlayFaceToFace runs in a web browser, so you can both join without downloading an app or creating an account.
What are good games for a short video call?
Tic Tac Toe, Checkers and Reversi start quickly and work well when you only have ten or fifteen minutes.
Can we play and video chat at the same time?
Yes. Video chat is optional and built into the game, so you can see and hear each other while you play.
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